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Why I Don’t “Blame Victims”
by Izzy Kalman (July 2008)The single most common–and angry–criticism I get is that I “blame victims.” Today, in the view of the mental...
Israel Kalman
Jul 31, 200811 min read


Promoting Hatred and Revenge
by Izzy Kalman (May 2008)The anti-bully movement came into being primarily to prevent school shootings. But school shootings continue,...
Israel Kalman
May 31, 20083 min read


Time to Call Off the Anti-Bully Witch-Hunt
by Izzy Kalman (May 2008)A couple of weeks ago (April 20) marked the 9th anniversary of the Columbine massacre, the event that gave rise...
Israel Kalman
May 31, 20084 min read


Hidden Victims of Zero Tolerance
by Izzy Kalman (May 2008)We are so happy to hate bullies that we fail to see the harm anti-bully policies are causing. In my profession’s...
Israel Kalman
May 15, 20083 min read


The Official Promotion of Fear
by Izzy Kalman (May 2008)I recently read The Culture of Fear: Why Americans Are Afraid of the Wrong Things by sociologist Barry Glassner...
Israel Kalman
May 15, 20082 min read


“Accountability”–the New Big Brother Word
by Izzy Kalman (February 2008)While we’re on the topic of Big Brother, I would like to bring your attention to the new popular buzzword...
Israel Kalman
Feb 20, 20083 min read


Big Brother comes to Australian schools
by Izzy Kalman (February 2008)Australia is taking bullying increasingly seriously, which is not surprising in light of a recent lawsuit...
Israel Kalman
Feb 1, 20082 min read


Are Bullies Like Terrorists?
by Izzy Kalman (June 2006)The website, www.BullyPolice.com, like many other anti-bully activists, have taken to comparing bullies to...
Israel Kalman
Jun 1, 20062 min read
“Consequences”: The New Euphemism for “Punishment”
by Izzy Kalman (May 2006)In George Orwell’s classic book, Nineteen Eighty-Four, the Big Brother government has a “Newspeak” department...
Israel Kalman
May 1, 20065 min read
Bullying Survey Results Or The Hypocrisy of the Anti-Bully Movement Chapter One: Power
Cognitive Dissonance and Hypocrisy There is a psychological theory called Cognitive Dissonance, proposed by Leon Festinger in 1956, which...
Israel Kalman
Aug 28, 20047 min read
The “Bully” Question — A Trap!
by Izzy Kalman (March 2003) The US is now at war with Iraq. Let us hope that whatever happens, it turns out for the best for both...
Israel Kalman
Mar 30, 20035 min read
The Sin of Judging
by Izzy Kalman (March 2003) While there is no official religion here in the United States, the vast majority of Americans are Christians....
Israel Kalman
Mar 30, 20031 min read


A Walk to Remember – Movie Recommendation
by Izzy Kalman (February 2003) My ten year old daughter, Ayala, recently urged me to watch what she said was the best movie she ever saw....
Israel Kalman
Feb 15, 20032 min read