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The Emotional Welfare State
by Izzy Kalman (November 2004) My “Turning Bullies into Buddies” seminar draws more criticism than my “Anger Control Seminar,” though the...
Israel Kalman
Nov 12, 20045 min read
When Should Marriages be Salvaged?
by Izzy Kalman (October 2004) I take marital problems very seriously. When a couple is miserable, children suffer as well, and the pain...
Israel Kalman
Oct 20, 20043 min read
Lawyers and the Perils of Divorce
by Izzy Kalman (October 2004) I have met countless people who have gotten divorced yet continue to be tormented by their ex-spouse. They...
Israel Kalman
Oct 20, 20042 min read
Good news! Bullies CAN feel remorse!
by Izzy Kalman (October 2004) In my seminar on bullying, I list a number of popular myths. One of these myths is that bullies are...
Israel Kalman
Oct 12, 20042 min read
Ignorance of The Golden Rule
by Izzy Kalman (September 2004) The Golden Rule – treat others as you would like to be treated – is the essence of all morality. Yet we...
Israel Kalman
Sep 12, 20043 min read
Freedom of Speech and Cursing
by Izzy Kalman (September 2004) One of my weaknesses is that I am not a quick thinker. This is quite a drawback for me when I am asked...
Israel Kalman
Sep 12, 20043 min read
Bullying Survey Results Or The Hypocrisy of the Anti-Bully Movement Chapter One: Power
Cognitive Dissonance and Hypocrisy There is a psychological theory called Cognitive Dissonance, proposed by Leon Festinger in 1956, which...
Israel Kalman
Aug 28, 20047 min read
On Humor and Laughter
by Izzy Kalman (August, 2004) I lecture a lot about the importance of humor. On several occasions, seminar participants commented that I...
Israel Kalman
Aug 23, 20041 min read
Bully, Hypocrite and Cognitive Dissonance
by Izzy Kalman (August 2004) I didn’t expect to be writing again about money, the main subject of my last newsletter, but I received so...
Israel Kalman
Aug 20, 20048 min read
The Village – Movie Recommendation
by Izzy Kalman (August 2004) Ever since I saw the incredible movie Unbreakable by M. Night Shyamalan, I have been looking forward to his...
Israel Kalman
Aug 12, 20041 min read
Welcome to the Dollhouse – Movie Recommendation
by Izzy Kalman (June 2004) I love movies, though I don’t watch them as often as I would like. I just saw one again that I had seen...
Israel Kalman
Jun 20, 20041 min read
Life Enhancement Recommendation: Toastmasters
by Izzy Kalman (June 2004) I attended Toastmasters for one year about five or six years ago, and have always had it in the back of my...
Israel Kalman
Jun 20, 20041 min read
Of Money and Bullies
by Izzy Kalman (June 2004) You’re not a bully, are you? You probably don’t think so. At my Bullying and Sibling Rivalry seminars, between...
Israel Kalman
Jun 12, 20046 min read
Reaction to The Passion
by Izzy Kalman (May 2004) I have not had as many lengthy, interesting, and erudite responses to any newsletter as to my last one dealing...
Israel Kalman
May 20, 20041 min read
The Folly of Protecting Feelings
by Izzy Kalman (May 2004) These days we’re teaching kids that the “sticks and stones slogan is a lie.” They are being taught instead that...
Israel Kalman
May 20, 20042 min read
Violence Versus Sex in Entertainment
by Izzy Kalman (May 2004) At my new seminar, Bullying and Sibling Rivalry, I have been distributing an anonymous survey form to assess...
Israel Kalman
May 12, 20043 min read
The Passion over “The Passion”
by Izzy Kalman (April 2004) My previous newsletter had about six separate items, but I was surprised that, with one exception, every...
Israel Kalman
Apr 12, 20048 min read
A Difference between Conservatives and Liberals
by Izzy Kalman (March 2004) In my seminars on Anger Control, I explain how agriculture unleashed the explosion in human population by...
Israel Kalman
Mar 20, 20041 min read
Marriage and Personality Disorders
by Izzy Kalman (March 2004) I have often been struck by the observation that mental health professionals get divorced at least as often...
Israel Kalman
Mar 20, 20041 min read
“The Passion” and Violence in Entertainment
by Izzy Kalman (March 2004) Mel Gibson is a genius, having produced what may become the biggest blockbuster movie of all time. What I...
Israel Kalman
Mar 20, 20042 min read