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Time to End the Bully Witch-Hunt
by Izzy Kalman December 29, 2008 Psychology Today Blog, A Psychological Solution to Bullying “You are entitled to a life in which ...
Israel Kalman
Jan 17, 20112 min read
Do a fun experiment for school that will demonstrate the simple solution to bullying.
Do a fun experiment for school that will demonstrate the simple solution to bullying.
Israel Kalman
Jan 10, 20111 min read
Why Anti-Bully Programs Aren’t Working
Our nation’s schools have been intensively fighting bullying for well over a decade, since the Columbine shooting brought the problem of bullying to the public’s consciousness. State legislatures frequently beef up their anti-bullying laws and policies in response to the high-profile bullying related suicides and shootings. The U.S. Department of Education as well has declared the goal of eliminating bullying from schools. Thus there is a good chance that as a school mental h
Israel Kalman
Jan 6, 201112 min read
School Responsibility for Teasing and Bullying?
I don’t know if you are aware of it, but there are many parents and child advocacy groups in this country who are fighting to have...
Israel Kalman
Jan 6, 20112 min read


James Garbarino (Unwittingly) Declares the Failure of Psychology to Deal With Bullying
A simple way to assess the current state of anti-bullying efforts is to hear what the country’s most revered expert on childhood...
Israel Kalman
Jan 6, 20114 min read
A Message from the Twilight Zone
by Izzy Kalman (June 2002) When I was a kid, I loved watching the Twilight Zone. One episode disturbed me more than any other. Only ...
Israel Kalman
Jan 3, 20112 min read


Germany School Shooting
by Izzy Kalman (April 2002) Last month, Robert Steinhaeuser, a high school student in Erfurt, Germany, killed 18 people including...
Israel Kalman
Jan 3, 20111 min read


Schools are Getting Safer
by Izzy Kalman (April 2002) In my essay, Columbine Made Simple, I explain that there is no “epidemic of violence” in our schools. ...
Israel Kalman
Jan 3, 20111 min read


Further Tales of True Bullies
by Izzy Kalman (April 2002) In the previous newsletter, I told the story of a “true” bully, one who doesn’t consider himself to be a ...
Israel Kalman
Jan 3, 20112 min read
Tales of True Bullies
by Izzy Kalman (June 2002) In the last two newsletters, I’ve been presenting stories of “true bullies” — individuals who act as bullies...
Israel Kalman
Jan 3, 20112 min read
Was Izzy Kalman a Victim of Teasing and Bullying?
by Izzy Kalman (June 2002) People often ask me if I created Bullies2Buddies.com because I was a victim of teasing and bullying as a ...
Israel Kalman
Jan 3, 20112 min read


A Victory for Lawyers in New Jersey
by Izzy Kalman (June 2002) Only a few days ago, New Jersey joined the ranks of States that hold its schools responsible for the...
Israel Kalman
Jan 3, 20111 min read
Union Bullies (Fiction Corner)
by Izzy Kalman (June 2002) I’m writing these words from the comfort of my hospital bed, where I am recovering from multiple injuries ...
Israel Kalman
Jan 3, 20112 min read


Bully – Movie Review
“Bully” (2001, directed by Larry Clark) is a disturbing movie based on the true story of a group of teenage kids who killed their bully....
Israel Kalman
Jan 1, 20113 min read


Bullying Survey Results Or The Hypocrisy of the Anti-Bully Movement Chapter Two: The Unfair Assault
If I were to tell you how you should behave, but I myself didn’t practice what I preach to you, what would you call me? A hypocrite, of...
Israel Kalman
Dec 31, 20108 min read
How to Handle Cyberbullying
HOW TO HANDLE CYBERBULLYING Israel C. Kalman In recent years, kids have found another way to pick on each other: the Internet and cell...
Israel Kalman
Jul 23, 20109 min read


The True Meaning of the Golden Rule: Love Your Bullies
February 20, 2010 Psychology Today Blog, A Psychological Solution to Bullying While the term the Golden Rule (I will refer to it as GR...
Israel Kalman
Feb 17, 20108 min read


Mirror Neurons, Conscience Development and the Fallacy of Accountability for Bullying
by Izzy Kalman January 23, 2010 Psychology Today Blog, A Psychological Solution to BullyingThe most dangerous ideas are not the ones...
Israel Kalman
Jan 17, 20108 min read
Proposal for a Rational Moral School Bullying Policy Based on The Golden Rule
By Israel C. Kalman, MS, Nationally Certified School Psychologist, Director, Bullies to Buddies, Inc. Students, Parents, Staff and...
Israel Kalman
Aug 9, 20099 min read


Proposal for a Rational Moral School Bullying Policy
Proposal for a Rational, Moral School Bullying Policy Based on The Golden Rule By Israel C. Kalman, MS, Nationally Certified School...
Israel Kalman
Aug 9, 20099 min read